The Defriender Revealed?
January 19, 2010 11:00 pm
Don’t you hate it when you wander over to Facebook and discover you’re light one friend? You have a hundred, maybe two or three or four hundred friends. It can be hard to figure out who dumped your status-updating butt from their list if it’s not one of your best friends and if you haven’t recently participated in a screaming match with anyone on your list. Even if it isn’t someone you speak with on a regular basis, doesn’t it gnaw at you? Don’t you want to know who defriended you?
With Facebook, you can be alerted when your friends have birthdays, when they update their status, when they play Mafia Wars or Farmville. You can follow the minutia of their days, but you can’t find out if they defriend you. The iPhone app, Defriended, offered a very simple solution, yet one that had been unavailable. The idea is very basic: you run Defriended, and then the app tracks your friends list. Defriended can then compare your current list with the list from the last time you used the app. And if someone is not on the list, that is your mystery defriender.
All of this for 99 cents. Rarely do your burning questions get answered so cheaply. But alas, Facebook has blocked this app and Apple has removed it from their store. A Facebook rep said, “While we cannot remove an application running on another website or platform, we will ensure that applications that access Facebook user data adhere to Facebook Platform policies.”
Apparently, Defriended’s developer, iDoodz, violated Facebook’s Platform developer agreement (section 2, if you want to get specific). Developers “must not notify a user that someone has removed the user as a friend.” Thus violating their privacy. The application was released on January 15 and almost immediately disabled. Some people even bought the app and found that they could not detect defrienders.
There are ways for people who really want to know who has defriended them (or “unfriended,” we should say, as that word has been adopted by the Oxford English Dictionary) to discover the culprit but they’re rather clunky. And so far, Facebook hasn’t let an app slip in that will do the job. So we’re left with either combing through our friend list manually each time we log in to Facebook or letting it go. Who needs ‘em, right? Instead, treat yourself to something nice from the dollar menu and poke a few of your remaining friends to cheer yourself up.
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